THE WORLD OF AN AMBITIOUS GIRL.
Before coming down to what and how is the life of an ambitious girl is, let's see what makes a girl ambitious.
In today's world, we find girls to be more ambitious than the other gender.
So what makes a girl ambitious?
- Inbuilt talent
- Capabilities
- OPPOSITE expectations of society
- Too many hurdles
- Influence from house environment etc
No matter what are the reasons behind you being so ambitious, all that matters is how to handle the situations and overcome the hurdles in your life to fulfill your ambitions, dreams.
The world out there seems supportive when it comes to feminism. But even today there are a lot of obstacles, pressure, lack of self-confidence, unsupportiveness.
So coming to what the life of an ambitious girl looks like...
If I mention about myself I am a very ambitious girl who believes in fulfilling her dreams with a lot of determination and hard work.
I believe in dreaming, analyzing, working and achieving.
But during this, there are a lot of circumstances that we need to face to achieve our goals.
You will find many people who want you to stay back!
You might experience pressure from family, relatives or loved ones to do something that is completely parallel to what you want.
Or if we take positive considerations some girls are blessed with supportive parents.
REASONS THAT STOPS YOU FROM FULFILLING YOUR DREAMS
1. Gender inequality
Gender inequality is the major cause of holding back girls.
Yes! I am a girl and I can do anything to make my parents proud.
Your little miss perfect can do wonders if you just stop concentrating more only on your son.
2. The consequences of coming age
Once she crosses twenty, getting her married becomes your family's top priority.
Parents, relatives and even the people you have zero knowledge about their existence undertake a mission to find her a perfect match.
Marriage can wait!
You should get married only once you get independent and achieve what you want.
3. Being labeled as someone's property
Blaming society for everything is not right when objectifying begins at home.
All her childhood and teenage she is labeled as "AMANAT HO KISI KI" "PARAYA DHAN" "DUSRE GHAR JANA HAI"
This gives a chance to the society to speak against you as "TUM TO LADKI HO"
Boys to label you as "TERI HAI, MERI HAI', "MAAL" and whatnot.
4. Staying away from home
Many situations can lead you to stay away from home either it is your studies or work.
This becomes a major issue for the people around you. They just can't digest this.
And can manipulate the minds of people who are supporting you.
5. The paradox of making one's own choices
When a girl talks about her own choices, they're always presumed to be about drinking, smoking, choice of clothes she wants to wear or other unacceptable things.
Oh please, there's more to life than that!
6. Being Groped
This is the most common reason that can stop you from what you want.
This can be one reason that your family is not supporting you.
This needs to STOP!!!
Your safety is in your hands, you need to protect your self because today's world can only promise you safety but cannot fulfill it.
#LetUsBreathe #LetUsSurvive
7. Pressure
Pressure can be of different types it can be the pressure of choosing this over that or choosing family over career or choosing to settle down before you get stable.
Some families can be pressurizing but it's your responsibility to explain to them about what you want until it is not wrong.
Every child has there own capabilities.
They need not be a doctor or engineer. They can be anything they want. Image result for pressurizing children
There can be many more reasons that can stop you but if you want it then fight it!
Only your hard work and determination towards your dreams can take you to your goals.
Your achievements can only shut their mouths.
Life of an ambitious girl is not easy!!!
You just can't dream and get what you want the next morning.
Being ambitious doesn't mean that you forget your morals, religious values.
Dreams have no boundary line.
But dreams that lead you to cross your boundary line or take you away from what you're are not dreams. They're destructive elements in your life.
I am blessed with the most supportive parents ever. But in case you're not then you have to explain them and not fight with them.
Because no parents would like to see their children in trouble. They go against you only if they find something that can destroy you or due to the above reasons.
If they're not supporting you because of the above reasons then you can explain them.
Otherwise, all parents want the best for their children.
Little Advice: Never give up, because great things take time.
And don't let people stop you from achieving your goals just because they can't digest your happiness.
#MORESELFLOVEBABYGIRL
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Hopefully, see you soon
ATB<3
-MeMissLovely
